- Control
- You know your divorce script and are in control of the narrative.
- You know what your future looks like and you are on your way to making it happen.
- Security
- You are settled and relieved.
- You have achieved a legal result that meets your goals financially and emotionally.
- You have let others help you and you have a support network to lean on in the future.
- Freedom
- You have shifted and improved the way you think about your spouse and reduced the conflict.
- You have a new self identity.
- You can get on with life, your way.